2011年10月27日星期四

【禁闻】惊心!陆6岁童愿望是杀死妈妈

【禁闻】惊心!陆6岁童愿望是杀死妈妈

【新唐人2011年10月28日讯】大陆一名读幼儿大班的6岁小孩,在课堂上说出自己最大
的愿望是:�拥有一把枪,然后一枪把妈妈打死……�。心理机构调查发现,许多儿童存
在�攻击性�,而很多大陆家长为了孩子不受欺负,向孩子传授打架的�技巧�。下面
请看本台记者的报导。

大陆《今日早报》报导,浙江省一所幼儿园大班的课堂上,老师给学生们布置了一个题
目:�请小朋友说一说最大的愿望是什么?�6岁男孩小灵的愿望惊得老师目瞪口呆。

原来,小灵最大的心愿竟然是:拥有一把枪,然后能一枪把妈妈打死。

妈妈朱女士说,因为儿子不听话太淘气,所以经常对他进行体罚。但自己的出发点是爱
孩子,儿子想杀死妈妈的想法让朱女士非常伤心。

大陆一名李姓作家认为,现在中国对孩子的教育出现了问题。

李先生:�6岁的孩子,他这样一种想法,应该引起一种反思,未必他就是一种真
实,这是社会因素所造成的一种影响。�

很多大陆家长为了孩子不受欺负,甚至向孩子传授打架的�技巧�。

浙江省立同德医院心理科主任徐方忠曾对1732名3岁―6岁的孩童进行调查,调查结果显
示:3-6岁的儿童总行为异常检出率13.22%。其中包括�攻击性�、�交往不良�等指
标。

为什么这么多孩子存在�攻击性�?大陆自由撰稿人朱欣欣认为,中国目前从表面
看,物质快速发展,但文化的发展和道德却跟不上。

朱欣欣:�中国的小孩生活在这么一个物质高速发达,可是文化严重畸形的这么一种环
境中,同时呢,他从上一代父母那一代,祖孙三代吧,都是生活在共产党一党专治的党
文化的环境中长大,所以这几代人缺乏最基本的人道主义的博爱精神的这种教育,所以
说呢他们也影响到下一代。�

朱欣欣认为,学校现在都是功利性的工具化教育,缺乏真正的对孩子关爱的普教,所以
导致中国孩子的这种暴力倾向,这种不文明不道德的现象还非常严重。

2009年,一段�广州一年级小学生的理想是�想做贪官�,激起舆论的讨论。

朱欣欣:�根本上原因来讲,就是缺乏信仰,缺乏信仰是什么呢?这么多年共产党给大
家灌输这种无神论,它把道德当作什么了?当作了政治的一种教条,道德失去了他神圣
的根本的来源。另外呢,共产党还把道德和政治信仰混同起来,只要不服从共产党领导
的意识形态的,它都认为不道德的,它不承认人类的普世价值。�

朱欣欣指出,要根本解决中国社会存在的道德问题,人民应该追求精神内在的信仰,而
外在应该打破压制人们追求信仰的一党专制。

新唐人记者陈汉、李韵、张健采访报导。

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6-year-old Boy Wishes to Kill His Mother

A 6-year-old Chinese boy said in a kindergarten that hisbiggest wish is "to
have a gun and kill my mom by one shot."Psychological agent did a survey
and found outthat there are many Chinese children who are "offensive."Most
Chinese parents teach their kids to fight,as to defend themselves.

China's "Morning Post" reported that a teacher in Zhejiang'kindergarten
asked children to talk about their "biggest wish."Xiaoling, a 6-year-old
boy stunned the teacher.

Xiaoling said his biggest wish is,"to have a gun and kill my mum by one
shot."

Mrs. Zhu, Xiaoling's mum said, she would often smackXiaoling, beause he is
too naughty.But she feels her action is based on a mum's love.She was
saddened to hear her son wants to kill her.

Mr.Li, a writer in China, thinks this is a problemof China's education
system.

Mr. Li:"A 6-year-old child to have such an idea should betaken note of.
Maybe it's not his real wish, but is an influence from thesociety."

In China, many parents are worried about their childrenbeing bullied, they
even teach the kids how to fight.

Xu Fangzhong, psychologist and director of Zhejiang Tongdehospital, did a
survey on 1732 children, 3 to 6 years old.The result showed that 13.2% of
them behave abnormally,which includes being offensive, communicating
poorly, etc.

Why are so many children offensive? Zhu Xinxin,a freelance Writer, thought
materially China looks like it s developing fast,but the development of
culture and moralsdo not match that pace.

Zhu Xinxin: "Chinese children are growing in a sociaty withfast material
development, but a severe deformed culture.At the same time, their parents
and grand-parents grew upin a society controlled by the communist party.So,
those generations don't have basic humanitarianeducation, which impacts the
younger generation as well."

Zhu Xinxin thinks the current Chinese schools are utilitarian,caring only
about the transition rate.There's no love for education and this is the
reason for thetrend of violence in children, and why the society is in such
a serious status ofincivility and immorality.

In 2009, a video showed a grade-one pupil dreamingof becoming a corrupt
official, which sparked hot discussions.

Zhu Xinxin: "The fundamental reason is the lack of faith.CCP taught people
to be atheistic.How does it treat the moral? As a political dogma.The moral
lost its sacred root.On the other hand, CCP mixes immorality and
politics.If you don't obey CCP's leadership, you are immoral.CCP doesn't
accept universal values."

Zhu Xinxin pointed out that to solve the moral issue in China,people should
pursue faith andbring down the one-party dictatorship thatsuppresses
people's aspirations for spirituality and virtue.

NTD reporters Chen Han, Li Yun and Zhang Jian 2011-10-28
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